Obituary of Veronica H. "Ronnie" (Sheris) Fader

Veronica H. "Ronnie" (Sheris) Fader, 92, wife if William L. Fader of Peabody, died unexpectedly on Monday, January 19, 2009 at the NSMC Salem Hospital. Mrs. Fader was born in Hastings-on-Hudson, NY on October 16, 1916, daughter of the late Peter and Ursula (Griga) Sheris. She was raised in Lynn and graduated from Lynn Classical High School. She later resided in Salem before moving to Peabody 55 years ago. Ronnie worked at Champion Lighting in Lynn until she married and left to become a full time homemaker. Raising three active boys was a full time job. It included attending sporting and school events as well as family summer vacations in the New Hampshire Lakes Region. She was a devoted member of St. Ann's parish where her sons received their religious background. With her husband Bill she enjoyed attending dances, "times" and other social events run by the A.O.H. Club. Following Bill's retirement they enjoyed traveling, playing bingo and socializing with their bingo friends. Ronnie was an exceptional cook and her specialties included a very filling chicken soup, a special clam chowder and her traditional baked beans that she shared with the whole family. She enjoyed and took pride in keeping her home in tiptop shape. Noon on Sundays meant dining out with the family at favorite area restaurants followed by a late afternoon game of Rummicube. Later on in the evening a spirited card game took place. Family birthdays were celebrated on Sunday evenings with many gifts, laughs, cake and ice cream. She'll be sadly missed by her family and friends. In addition to her husband with whom she shared 62 years of marriage, she is survived by her 3 sons, William L. Fader Jr. of Peabody, Robert P. Fader of Lynn, James D. Fader and his wife Loretta Logan-Fader of Peabody; a grandson, Keith C. Fader of Peabody; a sister and her husband, Isabelle and Harold Hoag of Peabody; a sister-in-law and brother-in-law, Marolyn and Michael Ciarletta of Lynn and 3 nieces. Her siblings John, Christopher and Charles Sheris predeceased her. Her funeral will be held on Saturday, January 24, 2009 at 10:30 a.m. from the Conway, Cahill-Brodeur Funeral Home, 82 Lynn St., (facility) Peabody followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 11:30 a.m. in St. Ann Church, 140 Lynn St., Peabody. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited. Visiting hours are Friday from 4 to 8 p.m. Cremation will follow on Monday. Following is a tribute entitled Mother which her family would like to share: Mother What is a mother? Ours was very special, and it would take a lifetime to praise her-but let's try. Her focus in life was to care for and raise her family. The happiest times in her earlier years were spending time with her three sons and loving husband Bill. She kept her house immaculate and hot, home- cooked food was always on the table. She loved cooking for the entire family, and her specialties included soups, chowders, baked beans and casseroles. Her days were spent cleaning, washing floors, ironing and cooking. She cared for us during illnesses, wiped our tears when we were upset, and gave us hugs and kisses when we needed them. Daily phone calls were made to her sister and best friend Isabelle. They discussed anything and everything going on for the day. They supported each other through good times and bad and ended their conversations with a cheery "Good Day!" Although Ma didn't have a daughter, she was fortunate enough to have her youngest son, Jim, marry Loretta, who immediately became a close family member. Our mother had a special place in her heart for her only grandson, Keith. They had a close bond and special love for each other. She supported him and encouraged him to do well in school. It was wonderful for her to watch him graduate high school, get nearly perfect SAT scores, and begin his college years. When she wasn't working in the house, Ma did find time to relax. Our family always went on summer vacations. Ma and Dad spent many Saturday evenings socializing with their friends. Bingo was a favorite destination two nights a week. Ma never drove a car or flew in an airplane. Her happiest moments were right at home. She hosted our Sunday night card games and family birthday celebrations. She loved "Wheel of Fortune", "The Price is Right", and old movies. During her last few years, her body was getting very tired and very weak. She had frequent visits to doctors and medical centers. She was most grateful to her sister-in-law Marolyn and husband Mike, who tirelessly brought her to her appointments, visited her daily while she was hospitalized, and gave her tremendous love and support. In the past few weeks, Ma was in terrible pain. Each day, it was a burden just to get out of bed. She I realized that her job in this life was over. She had had a husband, Bill, for 62 years, who was the love of her life. She had raised her three sons to be kind, loving, generous and responsible adults. Although nobody can live forever, we were all lucky to have had a mother like ours for so many years. Mothers are mothers, but ours was special. She taught us life's lessons, values, and right from wrong. "I love you!" was not often spoken, but always understood. Our family has always had strong bonds holding it together. And the strength and backbone of that bond is someone we will cherish for the rest of our lives. Ma, we will never forget the time we spent with you and how much we will miss you. Prior to your last operation, you were given a guardian angel pin which you always wore. It's time to take off the pin. God is protecting you now, and soon we'll all be together again in the hands of the Lord. Dad will miss you most of all. You've been his love for a lifetime. As your favorite love song states: "Thanks for the memories!" Your loving sons, Bill, Bob, and Jim