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Julie Estrella (Paris) posted a condolence
Thursday, February 21, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Ben. My memories of him are from when he was a little boy, running around Saunders Rd, such a happy kid, making everyone around him smile. My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family. Rest in peace sweet Benjamin.
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Stephanie MacCallum posted a condolence
Thursday, February 21, 2013
Our family is heartbroken over the loss of our "Benjamino". I was always inspired by the way Ben lived his life, and I know the support & love he received from his family helped to make him the positive, generous, person that everyone loved. I cannot say enough about how you all handled anything thrown at with so much grace & tenacity. You never gave up!! Take care of each other & I hope to see you soon. Much love, Stephanie MacCallum
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Taylor Barkan posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
I'm sure going to miss you Ben. Even though we hadn't spent time together recently, I'll always have the memories of us in Little League as kids. Ill never forget our childhood friendship, and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Hansell Leyva posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Brother, I'm going to miss you like crazy! I still can't believe you're gone... I think of you every second it's so unreal, one day we are here and a other we're gone. I'm blessed and thankful God put you in my path and we had nothing but amazing times, there wasn't a time we hung out that we didn't had a blast and those beautiful memories will always live in my heart. I know God took you because he needed a big angel like you to help him and watch over us now... You didn't deserve any pain so I know that you're in a better place protecting this insane world we live in. I wish I was able to see you one last time today but unfortunately I wasn't able to take off. I'm going to pray for you today and remember our great memories. I love you Ben <3 we will reunite one day and more memories will be created. My deepest condolences to Sandy, Jeff and family members.
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Lisa Costa posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Dear Sandy, Jeff, and Becca, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these sad times. Ben adored you all so much and was so lucky to have such a wonderful family. Thank you for always being so kind and loving to Chris. I know he will forever cherish the memories of times spent with you and Ben.<br>Love, The Costas
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Jonathan Mazzarella posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Sandy, Jeff, Becca, and Mike - My deepest condolences to you all on the loss of a wonderful son, loving brother, and loyal friend. Ben always knew how to get a good laugh out of everyone and that is what I will miss the most and remember him by. May he rest peacefully and may you rest easy knowing that he is looking over you all every second of every day.
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Rich Little & Jackie Sweeney posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Jeff, Sandy, and family - we are so very sorry for your loss. Knowing the challenges he faced, and reading about his experiences it is clear that Ben chose to make the most of his time here and lived life to its fullest.
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Lindsay Barkan posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
We've been out of Lynnfield for 10 years but could never and will never forget Ben. We knew Ben through Little League, school and just regular play like at the McCusker's or just playing on Saunder's Road. (I actually grew up in 10 Saunder's.) Ben will be remembered for his warm smile and his generousity. He was not only aware of his illness but aware of how fortunate he was in his life an had the ability and willingness to want to share what ever he could with others. Ben did a very good job.
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george & susan paris posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Sandy and Jeff, we are so sorry for your loss of your son Ben. Our memories of him will always be of a happy, carefree young boy. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.<br>Sue & George Paris
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Pat posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Today, we gathered together to mourn the loss of Ben, and to acknowledge the void in life that will now exist with his passing. Although we will feel that empty feeling inside of us, we need to hold on to the strength and courage that Ben and his family have always had,we should live by their example. We are humbled by the strength of this amazing family. Pat
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Laura Cornacchini posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
I was so sorry to hear of Ben's passing. He was that special patient that one never forgets. My thoughts are with you both, Sandy and Jeff.
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Jason & Kristin Voci posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Ben may you Rest in Peace and forever have a place by God's side to watch over your loving family. Our deepest condolences to the Tolmei family, and know you will truly have an angel watching over you at all times.
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Jen posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Benny, An honor caring for you. You are one in a thousand. Thank you for always thanking me. GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN
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Debbie Zarrella posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
February 19, 2013 Dear Sandy, Jeff and Becca, My thoughts are with all of you during this difficult time. Ben touched so many of our lives and he will never be forgotten. All your wonderful caring and love helped him live his life to the fullest. May he rest in everlasting peace. Love Debbie Lahey , Burlington
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Joan E. McCarthy posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
On behalf of the staff of 6WPCU - It was our pleasure to care for Ben. Despite him not feeling well, his courage and sense of humor was ever present. The loving support of his family and friends was evident. Our thoughts are with his family at this most difficult time.
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Ralph & Andrea Alfano posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Dear Jeff, Sandy & Becca - our deepest sympathy to you. We hold you all in our thoughts and prayers.
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Paula posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
We will miss you Ben. I know I didn't know you as long as a lot of people writing in this book but in the time I knew you, you not only positively impacted my life, but also my children's life. You were strong, funny, unique, sensitive....I could go on! We are better for having known you. We will smile when we think about our times together. <br>Love you always, <br>Paula, Michael, and Mia
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Pat posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Dear Sandy, Jeff, and Becca, Ben's unique sense of strength, courage, and kindness touched many lives, in so many places in the world. That touch will live on and continue as an inspiration to others that are in need of strength and courage. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now, as always. Pat, Dave, Megg,and Jillian
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Dale Pelletier posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Sandy and Family,<br><br>So sorry for you loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Love, Dale
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The MacNichol Family posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Dear Tolmei and extended families,<br>Our most heartfelt condolences on the loss of Ben. So many wonderful memories of the generous times you invited my son Thomas, along with Chris and Michael, to your beautiful home on Martha's Vineyard. It was an honor to be there with him for his first ear piercing with the boys, also. We treasure the times we spent with Ben, and I will always think of him, especially when I look at the first glass heart he gave me because I admired your collection so much.<br>Ben will forever be in our hearts and prayers.<br>With Love,
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Paul McGunigle posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Sandy,<br><br>I am sorry for your loss.
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Bob and Marta Niconchuk and family posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Jeff, Sandra and family, We send our sincere condolences and heartfelt sympathy to you in the loss of Ben.I wish there was something we could do to make your pain go away, but know that our prayers are with you and our hearts as well. Please let me know if there is anything we could do for you.<br>Our love to you, Bob and Marta
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Christoph Wald posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Dear Sandy and Family, we are so very sorry to learn of the untimely loss of Ben! Even this guestbook reflects that he has touched so many people during his all too short life, which he seems to have lived to the fullest extent possible. We know how much you have supported him not only personally but also the greater cause of the fight against cystic fibrosis. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time! Christoph, Ute and Maxine.
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Jane Erekson posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Dear Sandy, Jeff and Rebecca, I am so sorry for your loss.It is obvious how Ben's life has touched so many, and made so many happy memories. I pray his spirit and the happy memories will help carry you through this dificult time.<br>My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.<br>Jane Erekson Acton, Ma
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heideh ahari posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Dear Sandy, Jeff and Becca:<br>I am so sorry for your loss. Ben made such an impact on everyone he met! He will be missed by so many and remembered by all!<br>Love, Heideh
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Ken and Sue Meharg posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Jeff, Sandy, Becca and Mike, Although the pain is unbearable now, it will get better with time and you will have the wonderful memories of Ben to soothe you forever. All our love, Sue and Kenny
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Kevin Houlden posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Sandy, Jeff, and Becca very sorry for your loss, you are in our prayers Kevin Houlden
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Jeff and Lori Gaudet posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Jeff and Sandy,<br><br>Words can not appropriately convey how deeply we feel your loss. We are pleased to know that Ben packed so much living into far to short of a life. Much of it helping others, a lesson no doubt, learned by watching his parents and evidenced by his final wish. It is not suprising though. Through conversations with you about Ben and watching our own daughter navigate life it is clear that they operate with divine guidance, on a different plane. One not driven by time or disease or resentment but rather by living and moving and real,true friendships. We know Ben is in a better place. Our prayers are with you that you may know peace and carry on with the same spirit Ben had. God Bless You.<br><br> The Gaudet Family,
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Chuck Stickney posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Sandy,<br>I'm so sorry for your loss. Ben appears to have lived a meaningful life filled with adventure,challenge,and service to others.You must have been very proud of him. With thoughts, prayers, and deepest sympathy - Chuck Stickney.
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Mary Lou Maher posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Death leave a heartache no one can heal; Love leaves a memory no one can steal.<br><br>My condolences to my former neighbors Sandy, Jeff and Becca.
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harriet sollosy posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Dear Jeff and Family,<br><br>I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Even though I never really knew Ben I knew what a great loss losing a child can be. May he rest in peace.
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Jean Sullivan posted a condolence
Monday, February 18, 2013
Sandy, Jeff and Becca, My heart is broken for your loss but you all have given everyone a lesson on life. You have loved him to the fullest degree and because of this love he touched everyone along his way. He was very special and will live forever. Aunty Jean
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Shannon Woods posted a condolence
Sunday, February 17, 2013
Sandra, Jeff and Becca ..So sorry for your loss .. We are thinking of you .. Ben was a very special person and he will be in our hearts forever. <br> Love, Shannon & Billy Woods
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Keener Family posted a condolence
Sunday, February 17, 2013
So sorry for your loss; memories of craziness and so much fun with Ben will always be with us. Ben was such a free spirit and an awesome friend. Love Julie, Pamela and Susan Keener
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Bianca Manica posted a condolence
Sunday, February 17, 2013
Ben was one of my best friends since I was a little girl. We've had more memories than I could ever begin to think of. He taught me how to have fun fun and what a true friend really is. Ben you will<br>Always be in my heart. I love you so much.
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anita macdonald posted a condolence
Sunday, February 17, 2013
Ben was a shooting star,full of beauty,and everyone wanted a piece of him.<br>sandy and Jeff gave him a wonderfull life while having to share him,and let him<br>venture off when im sure they soo wanted to keep him safe and close to home.<br>My family are all better for having known him.<br>Godspeed Ben you will live on thru our bittersweet memories forever.<br>Anita MacDonald and Family.
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Diane DiCerbo posted a condolence
Sunday, February 17, 2013
Thank you Ben for bringing so many smiles and hugs into my life. Sake bombs for you!!<br><br>Professor Diane DiCerbo
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